In the game of life, there are no rules — but you've got to make calls and these are mine.
Welcome to The Style Ref — where personal style meets real life. Originally created as a destination for fashionable sports fans, this blog has evolved into a broader space for thoughtful takes on all things style, culture, and everyday life.
I'm Kathy — a Florida girl at heart, communications professional by trade, and proud millennial. I love talking pop culture, sports and all things beauty and fashion. I also enjoy having thoughtful conversations about where we're all headed and creating space in my corner of the internet to have them.
Like a good referee (no, that's not an oxymoron!), I call things as I see them — from skincare that actually works to fashionable team gear to cultural moments worth discussing, with a side of humor and heart. Whether you’re looking for recommendations, reflections, or a hot take, you’ll find it here.
The name hasn’t changed, but the game has evolved. Thanks for reading!
Since The Style Ref was born out of a deep, passionate love for my sports teams, you should know where my loyalties lie. As my closet reflects, I'm a proud alumna of the University of South Florida and loyal fan of the New York Giants, Orlando Magic, Tampa Bay Rays and Orlando City Soccer. Win or lose, I'm forever a fan. I love talking to other sports fans and hearing about their special connections to their favorite teams. Whether it's geography, family, college or just because, fandom is part of a person's identity and makes them who they are. To the fan in us all, may you always savor the wins and learn from the losses!
