In the game of life, there are no rules — but you've got to make calls and these are mine.
Welcome to The Style Ref — where personal style meets real life. Originally created as a destination for fashionable sports fans, this blog has grown into a broader space for thoughtful takes on beauty, culture, and everyday life.
Like a good referee (no, that's not an oxymoron!), I call things as I see them — from skincare that actually works to fashionable team gear to cultural moments worth discussing, with a side of humor and heart. Whether you’re looking for recommendations, reflections, or a hot take, you’ll find it here.
I'm Kathy — a Florida girl at heart, communications professional by trade, and proud millennial. I love talking pop culture, sports and all things beauty and fashion. I also enjoy having thoughtful conversations about where we're all headed and creating space in my corner of the internet to have them.
The name hasn’t changed, but the game has evolved. Thanks for being here!
Since The Style Ref was born out of a deep, passionate love for my sports teams, you should know where my loyalties lie. As my closet reflects — I'm a proud alumna of the University of South Florida and loyal fan of the New York Giants, Orlando Magic, Tampa Bay Rays and Orlando City Soccer. Win or lose, I'm forever a fan. I love talking to other sports fans and hearing about their special connections to their favorite teams. Whether it's geography, family, college or just because, fandom is part of a person's identity and makes them who they are. To the fan in us all, may you savor the wins and learn from the losses!
